Current news topics re bizarre male sexual behaviour

[TylerDurden]

I have been somewhat non-plussed at the bizarre behaviour of a certain Strauss-Kahn and the Schwarzenegger fellow, as these examples demonstrate the peril of giving certain dodgy males too much power. First of all, it's clear that the Strauss-Kahn fellow would have been imprisoned long ago if it were not for the extensive French anti-press pro-privacy laws. As for Schwarzenegger, I mean, shagging the family-housekeeper and making her pregnant - OK, so she was the one who apparently seduced him, but how could he be so stupid? I mean, she was direly ugly by comparison to his wife, so he must be the sort of abject idiot who fills every hole he sees. What a moron!

I hate to say it but perhaps a healthy, rawpalaeodiet would have perhaps prevented this sort of  behaviour. I mean, when I was on SAD, I was constantly filled with dodgy hormonal issues re sex, and now, while I am more settled, I may be more fertile but not quite as permanently horny at the wrong time.

[CitrusHigh]

who cares which holes he wants to fill Ty? Just like there's nothing wrong with you sitting there judging him, there's nothing wrong with him sticking his peter wherever he pleases. Everyone is free to do just exactly as they please, provided they are willing to live with the consequences. Recommended reading to drive this point home is Illusions by Richard Bach, jussayin', haha!

Also is there a place I can read about the history and evolution of this forum, and whoever founded and runs it?

Thanks for that and everything else!

[TylerDurden]

Well, Craig Bates was the main guy behind creating this forum, I just hung along as the 2nd-in-command. Then GoodSamaritan replaced Craig Bates once the latter got sick and tired of all the stress of  admining, for various reasons.

[zbr5]

What diet Craig Bates was on and what kind of sick he became? Anything serious?

[TylerDurden]

Rawpaleodiet.com has Craig's testimonial where he mentions what was wrong with him pre-RPD diet, and Craig was an RZC rawpalaeo.

[SkinnyDevil]

What does Craig do now...and is he still raw paleo?

[goodsamaritan]

Bizarre male sexual behaviour?  The sperminator?  The impregnator?
That's par for the course!
All cliche.
Except for the IMF guy, I think there is internal IMF politics going on...

[TylerDurden]

What does Craig do now...and is he still raw paleo?

I presume so. There was a dead-member" username I think he still uses to log in, but I don't think he checks in except very rarely(was it "xylothrill"?). So I think he's still RZC and all.

[TylerDurden]

Except for the IMF guy, I think there is internal IMF politics going on...

No, there's too much data now from women all over the place about his past behaviour, so I reckon he's just a vicious sexual predator who's abused his power once too often.

As for Arnie, nothing wrong with impregnating women or having affairs, but impregnating  his own housekeeper, and an ugly one at that? No wonder his wife left him - she'd been dumb enough to, weepingly, confide in the housekeeper about Arnie's endless affairs etc., so she must have been really annoyed re all this. Ah well, my older brother was much like that - a notorious alpha male womaniser who found it easier to go after more disreputable women because they were more "easy" than others.

[goodsamaritan]

Probably Arnie's wife has stopped putting out years ago.  Sexless marriage.

Arnie was in bad form for doing the maid.
Don't shit in your own back yard.
But doing maids is very very common.

So advice for wives when you pick maids... make sure you pick the UGLY ones, pick ugly maids your husband or sons will not ever bother to mess around with.

[TylerDurden]

Probably Arnie's wife has stopped putting out years ago.  Sexless marriage.

Arnie was in bad form for doing the maid.
Don't shit in your own back yard.
But doing maids is very very common.

So advice for wives when you pick maids... make sure you pick the UGLY ones, pick ugly maids your husband or sons will not ever bother to mess around with.

  She did, it didn't stop Arnie, though. And the wife still looks quite attractive for someone her age. What amazes me, though, is why she didn't herself go in for affairs years ago - I mean, it's not as though Arnie ever hid his philandering to any real extent.

[raw-al]

Just curious, what is bizarre about a guy having sex with a woman?

[TylerDurden]

Just curious, what is bizarre about a guy having sex with a woman?

It is never as simple as that. The wife had confided in her housekeeper for years about Arnie's affairs, had allowed her to use her jewellery for parties, had invited her to parties etc. It was not a case of Arnie having sex with a woman his wife didn't know about. So, for example, women are far less likely to get angry if their husband has had  sex with a prostitute from across town than if he's had sex with their best friend.
From Arnold's POV, he clearly was an idiot for sh*gging too close to home, and should, at leats, have shown enough respect to his wife to a) keep all affairs discreet and b) make sure the women he sh*gged did not know the wife.  More sensible husbands who have affairs , unsurprisingly, only go after women who have something to lose by telling all afterwards.  For example, it's notorious that the Duke of Edinburgh only ever had affairs with married women.

[raw-al]

If you get a chance read "The Truth About Cheating"

His research suggests that only 12% of all guys who do it do it for sex. The rest do it for emotional reasons. Emotional disconnection has occurred with the wife. Appearance, age, IQ and the other BS reasons that are trotted out have nothing to do with it. That is just blathering and posturing to protect the ego of the so-called "victim".

Ladies if you want "just the facts Jack" read this book and follow the advice. The rewards are worth the ante up. Also see Mark Gugor's DVD set

Essentially something that women do not realize is that us guys have fragile egos. Despite our size, strength and apparent emotional stability, we can be chopped off at the knees relatively easily in the heat of anger and fighting by calling us down. Some suggest that doing it even once may be all it takes for us to pull away and in some cases for good.

I am not justifying this or saying it is right or that it is wrong, I am saying that this is generally a case of A+B=C.

When it comes to coming in another than your own, there is no such thing as rules or behavioural norms or reasoning or IQ involved.

Just be thankful you are not in his shoes or for that matter his wife's (shoes that is) 

I rarely believe anything in the media anyways.

[TylerDurden]

"Emotional disconnection". That just seems to be a vague term to describe how both men and women get too used to each other, take each other for granted and therefore lose sexual interest in each other. Still doesn't excuse Arnie. I mean, if one doesn't try once to regain some spontaneity in a relationship etc., one is pretty shallow. And I seriously doubt that Arnie is the type who gets insecure just because his wife needled him a few times. He's got just too big an ego for that, and, besides, he was a prolific womaniser for ages before marriage.

[raw-al]

Tyler,
If you followed the link I provided and read my post you would see that the emotional disconnection referred to had nothing to do with the boredom of a long term relationship.

I wasn't attempting to excuse Arnie or anybody and I doubt that you know him well enough to be able to suggest that you know whether his ego is strong or fragile. And I doubt that you are in a position to judge him as per the exhortation "Let he who is without sin, cast the first stone".

You seem to be indulging in "Gossip".

Arnie and his wife are human like the rest of us.

[TylerDurden]

I followed the link and failed to read your post as those who responded used the name "natalie" and did not use your so-called "interpretations". As for "ego", this guy has, reportedly, a very long history of sexual harassment and affairs, so he is clearly in the wrong, and  has a  vast, untouchable, ego. If he hadn't, he would have confessed many years ago.

[wodgina]

Maria Shriver can't be suprised, she knew what she was getting into when she met him. It's the price you pay for the getting an Alpha.

[wodgina]

Arnie probably craved a loving woman that gave him attention. Unlike his wife by her personality.

[Raw Kyle]

Just wanted to chime in that the thread topic is bizarre male behavior and I find cheating, especially by men of power, as the most normal "bad" male behavior that has probably ever occurred in human kind; since the advent of monogamy.

[raw-al]

Funnily enough I remember a conversation with a guy who lived with his wife in a Muslim country. In conversations with some of the locals they asked him why he was monogamous. He said that he loved his wife and saw no reason to have another or to spread his seed outside his marriage.

They all laughed at him and told him he was full of s*#t .

Hmmmmmmm

[goodsamaritan]

Funnily enough I remember a conversation with a guy who lived with his wife in a Muslim country. In conversations with some of the locals they asked him why he was monogamous. He said that he loved his wife and saw no reason to have another or to spread his seed outside his marriage.

They all laughed at him and told him he was full of s*#t .

Hmmmmmmm

In my observation, monogamy is full of sh*t and a joke and a con.

Really, how many people do you know both male and female have only had sex with each other from the beginning until death?

Why are there red light districts and escort services, hookup dating sites, motels for sex, girlfriends, mistresses, dna tests, divorce, bastards, abortion, etc, etc.

Just read the book "Sperm Wars".

From my point of view here in Manila:
Monogamy is an artificial human fantasy created by white people from "Christian" countries.

Honest scientific observation shows monogamy is false.

[raw-al]

In my observation, monogamy is full of sh*t and a joke and a con.

Really, how many people do you know both male and female have only had sex with each other from the beginning until death?

Why are there red light districts and escort services, hookup dating sites, motels for sex, girlfriends, mistresses, dna tests, etc.

Just read the book "Sperm Wars".

From my point of view here in Manila:
Monogamy is an artificial human fantasy created by white people from "Christian" countries.

GS, My sentiments exactly!

I also have ordered the book from the library.

[wodgina]

I live near a beach and walk over and check the surf out regularly. The amount of couples who pull up to the carpark in different cars between lunches, after work, before work, all day long really it's just crazy.

I think, they think, they are incognito but after the thousandth time seeing it, it's so obvious.

I've seen men rock up on bicycles who look almost homeless rendezvousing with women in expensive cars. Pretty funny.

[TylerDurden]

Ah, it seems that a private detective in the US has done a check of Schwarzenegger's private life and has stated that Arnie mainly prefers to have sex with ugly/unattractive women as he is a bit timid/shy in the presence of beautiful women.