You don't need a reason other than religion when your family is very religious. It would look like a complete betrayal for my family. I'm hoping by the time I have kids my parents won't care as much. But circumcision is a huge part of Judaism. I realise its gross and is a really stupid thing but a lot of what religion does is stupid. Don't get me wrong I believe in a higher power but I don't believe this higher power would want me to put my life to a halt to pray for 4 hours.
Well you need to let your family know of the evils and injustices of circumcisions. There is the brit shalom which doesnt require cutting as well as i've heard Jewish ancestors frowned upon circumcision. Show them a circumcision happening on a baby (there are videos) and show them how terrifying , painful, and barbaric it is. And tell them to lie down on the table and have some cut part of their genitals off. If they sort of excommunicate you then they were no family to begin with. Doing nothing and letting an evil continue is just as bad as supporting it or carrying it out because you're doing nothing to stop it. You are lucky to see the truth, show others the truth of this barbaric ritual.'
And I confronted my parents and they confronted me aggressively with no remorse. I hate my parents for what they did to me and that is something a parent wouldnt want from their children. Save yourself the grief by leaving your children whole so they dont have to confront you with their feelings of grief or anger. It is sexism and if it were a girl the same thing wouldnt have been done. Female genital mutilation and male genital mutilation are the same. You would not mutilate your body for anyone and if a religion told me to cut my hand off for the sake of practicing it I would question the sanity of the practice. Jews against circumcision is a smart site.
You can read the facts at circumstitions, intact america, norm, nocirc, etc google them.
To a fellow paleoer what aint broke doesnt need to be fixed and for millions of years our ancestors havent had needed such a process. Its evolutionary impossible for one specific gender of a species to need a surgical removal of something they were born with. And they did just fine before this barbaric invention. Common sense + education = a powerful thing.